Why is it our job to understand and explain their struggles for them, though? Male feminists can do that for themselves. I'm worried about women. I speak about women because they are traditionally underrepresented and gatekept from positions of influence. If men need something, they have plenty of microphones they can speak into about that already.

Sorry, but this ain't it. At all. And for the record, men aren't that hard to understand. They're not that different from us. They just don't always know or want to accept that.