I agree with all of that. It brought up so many things from so many different perspectives. I experienced it first as a woman, I think, but then so did a lot of Black women in a way that goes deeper than it does for me. I think I just got annoyed particularly at a lot of pearl-clutching going on and what I felt like were overreactions from some people, many of them white women, and I thought, well I'm one of them. Might as well take that angle. Thank you for taking the time to read and comment.